Heres why so many girls migrate to the restrooms ins packs. Ever noticed this behavoir?

The Big Family SeriesAllison OchsMay 8, 2018Comment

Holy Fuckin' Train Wreck - The Teen Group Chat

I have a good sense of humor and can sometimes just roar with laughter when I see names of groups. I don’t laugh so much when I see how people treat each other on these infamous groups. I have been on enough teen groups to see my fair share.

The advantages growing up in a big family

There are advantages and skills you have by growing up in a big family. If you were raised in one you will recognize them. If not, read this and forgive all of your friends with sharp tongues that come from big families. We know how to argue… Sorry about that.

The Big Family SeriesAllison OchsMay 1, 2018Growing up in a big family, Sharing, Eleven kids, Raising KidsComment

My phone is my camera - Challenges of turning my phone off

Visiting the romantic Calella de Palafrugel reminded me of just how much I use my phone. Ilove my phone and don’t want to give it up but not taking a quick peek a messages when I am using it as a camera isn’t always easy.

The Infamous Teen Eye Roll and Scowl

I would love to see a teen eye rolling and scowl competition. Mine would certainly be able to enter but the mere suggestion of the competiton would create a scowl and a rolling of the eyes fit for a win. I cope by understanding just why they are doing this.

The Big Family SeriesAllison OchsApril 17, 2018Eye Rolling, Teen Eye Rolling, Raising Teens, Teen SassComment

Magical Dutch Cheese with a Story to Tell

Expat StoriesAllison OchsApril 5, 2018Dutch Cheese, Stories, Expat stories, Eating, Family Dinner, Shel SilversteinComment

My parents rule ... $1000 for a wedding!

My parents really only gave us $1000 to throw our weddings. With eleven kids who can blame them but when it was my turn to get married I didn't think it was FAIR. I was young....I get it now.

The Big Family SeriesAllison OchsApril 3, 2018Wedding for $1000, Big Families, Love, Raising Kids, BoundriesComment

Junior Year! Where should my son/daughter apply?

Are you planning with your kids? Getting the questions non-stop, "What schools are you visiting/ applying to?" Our son reminded us of something very important in the process.

Disagreements - Argue with me, please

Why argue? Because I will learn and so will you. Rather than pooh-poohing arguing, embrace it. Teaching your kids to argue respectfully is a skill that will help them get through life.

The Big Family SeriesAllison OchsMarch 22, 2018Teens, Raising Teens, Parenting, Disagreeing with your teenComment

A glass of wine, parenting hacks, and a pact - we're all in this together

Friends can open your eyes when you listen. Parenting has gotten a bit trickier with the internet and we need eachother more than ever. Let friends teach you their tricks, drink some wine, read some articles and help eachother make the right choices.

Parenting in a Digital 🌎Allison OchsMarch 15, 2018Musical.ly, Raising Kids, Kids Health, Digital Parents, FriendsComment

Kind Words Matter

Training in kind words and positivity. My Mom was a pro at this and it helps not only with teens but everywhere....really.

The Big Family SeriesAllison OchsMarch 13, 2018Kind Words, Kindness, Teen Health, ComplimentsComment

Smartphones - They light up, are addictive, and we love them

When I was a student smokers at Universty and in restaraunts and clubs drove me crazy. Smokers have learned they may love their cigerettes but there is a time and a place ... the same goes for our little handheld devices.

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