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A Modern Guide to Parenting Digital Teens, Derived from Lessons of the Past.

 
 

While traveling around the world, Allison Ochs has found a few things to be consistent everywhere.

  • Parents are grasping for guidance and direction when it comes to raising digital teens/kids.

  • Parents are busy.

  • Parents want to hear what they can do now.

Allison makes herself beautifully vulnerable by sharing stories from her teen years in Utah as one of eleven children, as a mother, and as a professional. Her advice is simple, easy to implement on many levels and without judgement. She knows how hard this is.

The best part: you will laugh as you remember your teen self and yes, you might even want to put an 80s hit on while reading this book.

 
Family media plan conversations starters.

Family media plan conversations starters.

 
 

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You can buy it on our shop, order it directly from the publisher AUP.nl , or on bol.com, Amazon.com, barnesandnoble.com, booktopia.com, target.com, indigo.com, and most online bookshops.

An easy, eye-opening and reassuring guide that gives expert advice while feeling like talking to a friend over a cup of tea, or glass of wine.
— Mother of three teens
 
Audrey Mezas sits down with social worker Allison Ochs to talk about raising kids in a digital era and her new book Would I have sexted back in the 80s?.
 

“I did not write this book for teens but they are reading it and loving my cringy stories and my advise.

 If you don’t know how to start some tough conversation with your teen just lay this book on the coffee table and they will pick it up. The illustrations and stories will speak to them and you can ask them their opinions on the topic and there you will have your conversation starter.

Honestly, I don't even mind if you disagree with some of my points. It is your home and your children. What I do care about it that you are talking to them about these topics and often.”

Allison Ochs, author

 
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Allison Ochs and classmates back in the 80s at Davis High in Kaysville, Utah

Allison Ochs was raised one of eleven children in a Mormon family in Utah. She is now a Social Worker/Teen expert living with her husband and children, combining the knowledge from her youth with her work experience in Europe.

 
 
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Ricardo Rivera

Ricardo is an 18-year-old University student and talented young artist. He started illustrating Would I have sexted back in the 80s? when he was 17 and just as he graduated from his High School, The International School of Amsterdam.

He is PuertoRican and Dutch speaking three languages fluently. Art has always been his passion.

 

The reviews for Would I have sexted back in the 80s? are book are fantastic!

Debra CantrEll - School Counselor

“Allison Ochs' narrative moves parents and educators into actions that will make a huge impact upon our teens and the future that we share. As a professional in the field I recommend this book to all parents. I support Allison's suggestions on how to use personal connections while at the same time, making full use of our digital connections with our teens. Her personal stories make this a very enjoyable read.”


D. Ducharme - P.E. Teacher

“A quick, yet essential read for any parent who has the courage to learn and implement new house rules for technology for the entire family that will help to improve relations and communications.”


Anonymous Amazon Review

“Allison Ochs’ book is timely yet timeless. While discussing how to deal with "digital natives" and children growing up in an era where they are constantly connected to their devices, she reminds us that while the device may me different, the desire for connection has remained constant through generations. That, in fact, is a theme throughout the book. Connection is key, and finding ways to connect with youth offline can turn the conversation about online devices into a positive, productive experience. As an educator, I will use her practical advice to have honest, authentic conversations about media and digital citizenship with my students, who are eager to have their voices heard and questions answered.”

By giving educators, parents, and advocates a roadmap for tough conversations and taboo topics, she courageously opens up about her own personal experiences as a teen, parent, and social worker, to make everyone feel a little less alone.”

”I found myself laughing, learning, and refusing to put this book down. Thank you for the roadmap, I feel empowered, equipped, and energized to discuss digital citizenship.”


M. W. - Email written to me by a mother

“I just wanted to let you that I read your wonderful book today! Me...finished a book in one day...never happened and usually I never ever read to begin with.

This is my way to tell you that your book was captivating, educating and interesting!!! Thank you for advising me personally today.”


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